Celebrating each other makes us different than other creatures

Pan de muerto, salt, marigolds, and other traditional items are left on altars (ofrendas) to commemorate Day of the Dead.

While building an altar (an ofrenda) for Day of the Dead (Dia de los Muertos) it struck me that humans celebrate other humans in peculiar ways.

Ofrendas are truly offerings. A way to give something to someone that you loved for a long time, and maybe a short time too. Among the flowers and the crosses, the candles, and the decorative skulls, are pictures, and mementos of life’s little things.

I didn’t grow up building altars, but when I pass them in store windows, or in neighbor’s living rooms, I always stop for a moment to take in what someone is trying to say about someone else. Someone else that isn’t here anymore and isn’t forgotten.

I don’t have kids and I’m not married. Maybe that will change one day, but for now, all I have at home is my cat Nadya. A cat and everything that belongs to her. That’s what I have. Furry tows and catnip. Balls that make ringing noises. A fresh water device that is always flowing. A tower that gives her ability to look down on me and everything else.

The day my grey-haired buddy leaves me she will leave everything else too. None of her cat friends (if she has any) will celebrate her. They won’t make her a memorial or put up her picture. They’ll just find a way to move on to the next day without her.